Letter to My Daughter 2026-08-25 01:02 UTC

Medhaa! hope you are having a good day! not getting into silly arguments with mum, neighbour, future husband, business networks, employees, or disgruntled people on any given street.

By the time you read this, I may not be around to fuck around with you! You have to learn how to do this yourself! Anything that appears must also disappear, so it is called temporal. The very important things about your life is don’t fragment or keep fracturing it using specificity in preferences.

The way you create is much like making a bread roll, you take a little bit of yourself and create ideas of your liking. But remember the way you create your ideas, is also the same manner in which others create their ideas. When you destroy ideas, you maybe hurting the person the idea came from.

Reduction

My thoughts are simple. You should succeed in your life, have the ability to understand written and spoken concepts well! If you think something is hard! stop what you are doing and then start asking yourself, why is it tricky! Ask yourself; am I imagining things. More importantly don’t do hard things; to prove that your smart, just ask yourself! where does this fit in and really who the hell! needs it, and why!

Expansion

The fastest way to expand! is not to expand or destroy things! The simplest way to reduce something or expand something is just to accept things as they are! Suddenly you understand what you have to! Don’t waste time. If you want to win, let someone else win. They are probably winning the wrong prizes too. Importantly winning and loosing will give you endless opportunity to remain happy! don’t resist any opportunity embrace them.

Curiousity

Don’t fall into a hole because you like digging! the more you accept that everything exists as it does! and the sooner you accept that, the easier it will be.

Books

Read books from Douglas Norman Adams, Terry Prattchet, Donquixote, Curse of Madame C, Asterix, and the Bhagavad Gita. They are the main books. Read something interesting daily, also helpful! read commercial information! learn about businesses, start using good mathematics and physics in everything you do and think.

Love

If you like someone let them know! not everyone will like you and neither should you. The way to work out whom you like is to know what they read, who their friends are, their personal philosophy on work and if they understand fairness completely. So you should learn about the philosophy of law. The more you become conversant with philosophy the less confusions you will have in life and you will be a leader.

Health

Everything is about balance! Don’t over do anything! It is the Answer Lord Krishna! gave Arjuna! If you overdo anything you will start to hate it yourself. If you are crazy about anything, you are not entitled to knowledge or peace, let the infatuation pass to better pastures.

Relationships

Don’t get too close to anyone! know about everyone! don’t learn about anyone, unless they what to teach you about themselves.

Hobbies

Music - Keep learning | Languages - Keep learning | Literature - Keep reading | Mathematics - Keep Experimenting | Science - Keep Studying |Economics - Keep Making Money | Law - Keep Applying Fairness | Always Be aware of Clinical Paradigms, Take the Hippocratic Oath | Then Keep Doing all the while!

Note: I didn’t start communicating with my daughter until she started kindergarten, I wanted to wait! The biggest influence on Medhaa’s life was her mother!